Mn, good questions.
I paid about $139 CDN for mine. I believe it was shipped free, as per the website. This is not a lot for a more famous custom knife, but for a risk on an unknown-to-me maker, it was significant. It certainly meant I couldn't buy another blade.
For me, the cost of sending the knives back was added to the refund. I'm not sure about taxes etc. paid at the time, but I am satisfied that my shipping cost was paid for. (I just mailed them out this morning.)
The real loss is, for me, is not in simple dollars. Here's what I feel I 'lost' on this deal:
First, "mad money" is VERY rare for me, and I spend a LOT of my time researching and shopping online before I spend my mad money. I have to squeeze every bit out. At the time of purchase, I was looking at two Tops knives (at Bushcraft Canada, actually) but decided I wanted a Canadian made knife to 'replace' my loyalty to Grohmann. The Forester appealed to me the most, but Paul wasn't carrying them yet. I got my money back, but now it's gone to other places. Kinda like spitting on a hot stove -- poof! Gone!

So for me, the first casualty is the loss of joy of spending some money on a knife. I haven't had the cash for a blade since then, IIRC.
Secondly, there's the disappointment, phone call, waiting, going without both my money AND a decent knife... That really bummed me out.
Another cost for me was that I initially went "all in." I was trying hard to be a fan. My reputation (for whatever you guys here consider it) has been embarrassed. Did I steer anyone on YouTube or here to buy a Triple X knife? I hope it worked out ok for them. Obviously for me and Heirphoto it didn't...
So, to cut this short, the real loss for me is not money -- although my financial situation has changed and the refund went elsewhere -- but the simple joy of a new blade. And of course, I'm embarrassed that I hitched my wagon to the wrong horse.
I have suggested above, Mn, how I think I would handle this. I'll wait to see if there's anything forthcoming.
Until then, I'd never, ever buy a blade there, whatever I hear happened at the shop because of this.
Huh, I might as well go back to Grohmanns...

Thanks for asking Mn. I hope Heirphoto weighs in for ya.
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